Should You Pitch, or Pass? When to Walk Away from an RFP
Every agency knows the thrill of a new RFP landing in the inbox. The scope looks compelling, the brand name has impact, and the team’s first instinct is to say YES.
But just as clients should be intentional about what they ask in RFPs, agencies should be intentional about which opportunities they pursue. Not every RFP is worth it. But how do you make that call?.
First, weigh the intangibles
Not every decision can be reduced to numbers. Some of the most important filters are about vision, reputation, and relationships:
- Strategic Alignment: Does this client (and this work) move the agency in the direction we want to go, or does it pull us off course?
- Reputation: Is the brand known for fair processes and long-term partnerships, or for cycling agencies like clockwork? Past behavior is a powerful signal. I’ve written elsewhere about how integrity shows up in RFPs from the client side.
- Client Impact: Even without a category exclusive, will saying yes strain an existing relationship? Sometimes just the perception of conflict is enough to erode trust.
- Chemistry: Even if we win, will we actually want to work with this team? Life is too short (and talent too precious) for clients who drain more than they give.
- Level Playing Field: Is this truly competitive, or already wired for another shop? No amount of brilliant thinking changes a stacked deck.
Then, examine the tangibles
The practical realities of budgets, bandwidth, and opportunity cost often determine whether a pitch strengthens or weakens the business:
- Prioritization: Will chasing this opportunity pull too much focus from existing clients? Protecting the business you already have is always job one.
- Fit: Does the ask align with our core expertise? A small stretch can be healthy growth. A giant leap can be a distraction a best, or a complete disaster at worst.
- Profitability: Based on the proposed scope, can we realistically service this account at a margin that makes sense? Too many “prestige” wins quietly erode the bottom line.
- Pitch Costs: Travel, spec work, and leadership time add up quickly. Is the upfront investment proportionate to both the opportunity and our chances of winning?
- Opportunity Cost: What would we be doing with this time and talent if we weren’t chasing this RFP? Often, channeling energy into existing accounts creates more value.
The hardest lesson for many agencies comes down to when you should pitch vs when you should pass. Being disciplined in what you don’t pitch can create more value than chasing everything that crosses your desk.
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